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~Nur Damia Safiyah~




Nur Damia Safiyah...Cahaya Bijaksana Sahabat Yang Baik...lebih kuranglah maknanya...
was born on 21 August 2005....3.6kg....7.30pm......
first baby, of course susah nak kluarkan???...pasal mia or kakak nie...mmhhh....lots of problems during the pregnancy...4 times awarded kat hospital because of bleeding...dr ingat plasenta previa (uri dekat bawah) tp so far takde apa...maybe darah banyak sgt kot...tak taulah..itu urusan Allah..Dia sahaja yang tahu...takpelah...memang tough dan banyak dugaannya tp berkat kesabaran, alhamdulillah...selamat dilahirkan....berkat doa suami dan keluarga..




due date supposed to be on 14 August 05 tp....after a week from the due date,kalo tak sakit dan kluar tande pape, wajib p hospital ....itu arahan dr...p hospital yg aku prefer nak bersalin la.....so aku p la spital batu pahat mase 21 Ogos tuh....nak p pontian, nursenya garang so aku takut la kan...lain plak jadiknya, dahler first baby...aku p spital, dalam kul 11 pg...so sementara husband uruskan registration, aku kena undergo some check up kat labor room....so p je la tanpa rase cuak atau takut..sebab takde rase sakit...tup,tup...dr yang check tu my schoolmate masa kat sri benut...okaylah tuh, rase selamat sikit...dr pompuan..hehehehh..memang doa sgt dapat dr pompuan tau...org doa nak anak pompuan ke lelaki..aku tak, dengan dr sekali aku mintak doa tau...lepas check, dr ckp dah bukak 3 cm...dr pun pelik apsal aku takde rase pape..aku lglah pelik..ehehehh...dr cakap kena induce (paksa la sakit)...aku tak kisah lah...



masa kat labor room tu, aku pelik..apsal la sumer org kat sini termasuklah yg non muslim..terjerit2 mcm apa,kalah tarzan...pelik...tapi lepas induce 3-4 jam...aku dah tak pelik sebab aku dah tau kenapa...Ya Allah, sakitnya nak beranak tuh...hanya Allah sahaja yang tau...of course lah sape yg bersalin pun tau...especially first baby..induce kul 12 tgh...aku start sakit kul 3 lebih...tp boleh tahan lagilah...biler dah masuk kul 6 tuh..memang aku tak tahan sangat...dok sebut 'Allah' beratus kali...takbir...tak pyh cakap...kalahkan imam tuh...nak bangun dr katil, misi tak bagi...depa takut terpelantun kluar nanti anaknya...ngeri jugak...anyway, thanks dr kembang aziah and all the nurses at labor room od spital BP..they were so great in perform their job....thx again, so much appreciated by me...





aduh...kekerapan sakit tak tertanggung...aku memang tak larat dah...by the time nak maghrib tu, aku memang rase nak terkeluar sangat ...tp, aku tawakal jer...dr datang check, dah bukak 10cm...cuma nak kena meneran je lah...aku dah meneran sekuat yg boleh...tp nurse cakap aku meneran kat mulut..manalah aku tau...sebab dah abih teran masa tuh...time kali ketiga meneran, aku raselah nurse gunting kulit aku..eiiikkkkk...tp dah terlampau sakit sampai dah tak rase papekan....alhamdulillah, kali ketiga tuh, baru boleh kluar..itupun lepas dr cakap, kalau tak meneran betul2 ni.kami akan gunakan forsep atau vakum....itu yang kumpul kudrat dan phewwwww....peletupppp....kluar anak aku...dgr die menangis..alhamdulillah, selamat...first thing aku check, jari die cukup tak..hehehehh...taktaulah...tp that was 'spontan' ....yg penting sumer selamat...husband cakap, rupa baby cam jepun...aku tak taulah, die refer aku ke die..kihkihkih...sape yg rupe jepun skang nie??...musykil....
anyway, esok dah boleh balik....lepas bersalin, 10 hari br boleh jalan coz banyak jahit..almaklumlah, anak besor....lepas nie, nekad nak jaga baby dlm perut supaya tak besar...sakit tuh...apepun, aku bersyukur dengan kurniaanMu, Ya Allah...anugerah ini merupakan pengikat kasih sayang aku dan suami....semestinya, tanggungjawab pun bertambah dalam add on list...takpe, hidup lebih bermakna dan ceria dengan adanya puteri damia...alhamdulillah....syukur,syukur dan syukur kehadratNya....amin




~Do you still remember.....18 Dec 04~...

Picture can describe a thousands of words.....so let the pictures do the job...kay






anyway...my hands still want to jot something here... the wedding run so perfectly eventhough without my helps at home...so much depending on my mum as i don't have 'cuti' la..i'm back on the dot...today is the last day at office, tomorrow would be my wedding...nak buat camne...baru koje so that's the nature of work...u got work, u got leave...if not, try to survive on ur own...but thanx to my boss, he did understand my situation so no more stress while the last-last day on the office...just finishing my last task and....i got back early..hehehehh..thanx boss...miss Tabung Haji a lot...that's where i learned about 'malay work culture'...the pros and cons...i would prefer a mix and match work environment as that would suit me well...anyway, always be thankful for what u have madeha...don't be so 'tamak'...want this and that too much....lesser would be much better...well, out of story....





cont...well, all the preparation was made by my mum...including the souvenior, special gifts to my friends...even 'hantaran' too...i couldn't make it...thanks mak...i luv u so much...the sad part was i could'nt invite all my friends coz i don't have time for that ( so busy with the new job...eventhough i'm quitting at that time, ehehehh)....and the truth was that, i had lost contact with some (are u sure some???) of my friends especially during the secondary school, matrix and varsity...so i'm so sorry to all of u (my dear friends) who did not get the invitation...to those who came, thanx a lot..never mind, maybe...some other time, anniversary for my 25th years of marriage (amin)..i shall invite my friends...at that time, i'm not sure whether i'm still alive..heheheh...life so short, u know.....well, life is full of hope so let the hope become a dream and desire....




actually, i don't pretty much like red...but somehow, during my wedding, it turned out that this was my favourite theme color..heheheh...u know why??..coz my mom loves this color so much so as an appreciation to her...i choose this for her...but now, all that has change...coz now i would be very glad to have something in red or maroon....oohhhh...i =red...just nice...mum means everything to me....every single thing about her means a lot to me....oouucchhhh...if anybody talked about family especially mum...the tears is like ..mmhhh...how to say??...so easy to drop off from the stairs (eye la)...my husband noticed this...i thought it was a secret..kihkihkih....not anymore...



as far as i am concerned, without my mum...there won't be any wedding day for me...ummhh...there won't be me....ummhhh.....anyway, thanks a lot...only Allah knows how much i love u mum.......and also the whole family....my aunties, uncles, nieces...sisters and brothers...thanks for made the day for me very special...luv u all...adios




p/s...sorry for the grammar..still learning and improving...so correct me if i'm wrong...






Tanggal 31 bln 8 57.....merdeka...merdeka...dah melalut plak dah..




sebenarnya gini...pada satu hari...ehehehh...tarikh 20 Nov 2004, kenangan manis buat aku dan husband of course...kitorang diijab kabul sebagai suami isteri yang sah dan secara rasmi, aku memegang jawatan baru iaitu...mem besar kat umah....kihkihkih...pangkat besar yang takde tandingan....




seronok sebab semuanya selesai dengan sempurna seperti yang diinginkan...majlis yang simple tp penuh bermakna buat aku...almaklumlah, melangkah ke dunia baru...banyak nak belajar lagi lepas nie...tanggungjawab pun dah bertambah...tp apepun, aku redha dan bahagia dengan takdirNya....ini episod yang aku pilih dan aku akan laluinya dengan hati yang penuh girang, ditambah lagi dengan iringan doa keluarga dan kengkawan...




Yang sedihnya, masa ni tak dapat nak jemput ramai orang coz on december 04, ada majlis lain utk majlis bersanding......takpela yg penting dahulukan yang wajibkan...


lepas ni,banyak lagi benda menunggu aku especially.....koje...yang takkan abis pun sampai mati...itu laki aku yang cakap...maybe dia tengok aku nie workholic sangat...takpelah, janji die tau aku koje nak tolong die...sama2 support keluarga...kalau die cakap...awak berenti koje je lah, abang leh tanggung...aku lg suke dok umah...ehehehh...


well, ikatan perkahwinan nie bukan setakat sehari dua tp utk seumur hidup, (insyaAllah dan amin utk aku dan suami)....banyak lg nak diterokai...tp yang pasti, untuk melalui perjalanan ni kena ada ilmu....camne nak jadi isteri solehah, jadi ibu yang baik, cara didik anak, jadi hamba Allah yang taat perintahNya..mcm2 lagilah...macam2 ado bak kate ustaz akhil khayy...dlm episod ceramah die, suke sgt sebut benda nie...laki aku selalu cakap...org pompuan nie senang masuk syurga...tak mcm lelaki, banyak tanggungjawab...tp dgn syarat, kenalah patuhi garis panduan yang Allah dah bagi...cthnya, taat kepada suami, jaga solat, jaga maruah diri dan suami...etc...cariklah sendiri...






Dated 20 Nov 2004, it's officially started the new beginning of my new life...the long journey just begin and hopefully, we will go through everything that come across together....


well,being a wife to somebody which i called deary husband is not as simple as i thought...but whatever it is thanx so much my dear coz accepting me as i am...






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